It's not about this one guy and what he is going through. It's about all men. We're no longer being "charitable" to men who aren't making an effort. That ship has sailed.

This is about a rampant problem women are experiencing of men falling short and thinking that they don't need to contribute or pull their weight in relationships. You can argue it all you want, but this is what is happening.

And before you start talking about women being lazy, too, let's look at which gender has the bigger problem with this.

It's not just in dating, but in marriages and in the business world. Men -- as a gender -- have a strong sense of entitlement and have expectations which are completely out of line.

One only need to attend a family event such as a barbecue or holiday meal to see this in action. Forget being responsible for the entire thing, do men even jump in and help without being asked?

When you look at most families, who does the shopping, the cooking, the cleanup? That doesn't even account for the managing of planning and executing the event. Which gender is more likely to have to change diapers, care for the children, or take care of elderly relatives? Women.

And frankly, we are fed up.

A report out this month found that women doing 21 hours of unpaid labor every week. The statistics back it up.

So when men start pulling their own weight and stop expecting women to be their maid/mother/porn partner, then they can ask us to do "thought experiments" about what men are experiencing.

Until that happens, we're too tired to give a shit.